Sunday, January 27, 2008

Year of Decision

So early in the year I have been faced with/been presented with a number of options, particularly regarding one matter. I have had phone calls, I have had IM conversations, some text messages but all regarding the same thing.

For my part I have made a decision - sort of. I say "sort of" because there are factors over which I have no control. There is also contention within me as to whether it is the right decision or not - part of me doesn't care and a part of me cares way too much!

Two different friends both agreed that a person should opt for the one who loves them and not the one a person loves; my question is, what if you don't love that person at all, should they still be your No. 1 choice? A conversation I had with someone is that "the fear of women is the beginning of...." to which they added:and worse a woman that loves you ...
or likes you ...
or likes you too much
or loves you but not in love with you ...
and is worse if a ...

Apparently worse = real (don't know how they figured that one out). When did life become so confusing???