Joy and Pain
It's been a bit of a rollercoaster of emotions this week.I would think that if you are accused of something, the accuser would at least check their facts before assuming that you are guilty. As things stand, I have already been found guilty with no evidence. I'm trying hard to keep my sister out of this because I know what would happen and it wouldn't be nice!
If I were going to call someone I didn't know, I would firstly not use my phone. Second, I would change my voice. Third, I would not ask for the person (i.e. the accuser), especially when I know that they aren't there, I'd ask for some random person. In this case, all of these things have been done, and I can only assume the person who supposedly received this call is blatantly lying. It had occurred to me that the person who claims to have received this call is out to make trouble. Problem is, the accuser is incapable of seeing or understanding that. In my thirty-something years, I have never done anything like that, and neither has any of my family.
So it's been a week of silence. Well, not exactly, it's a week of my calling and long gaps of silence. Today was the first time I was able to put my side of the story - yes, it's that bad. It seems that I'm paying for something I did not do, based on one person's word, even though I say I have copies of all of my calls made on the day and time in question. Not only that, but it seems that the timing of the person is off, but Accuser can't quite see that.
I'm expected to apologise for something I did not do, and I will not do that. To apologise for something you didn't do is lying in itself, because it means that somewhere down the line, should another incident occur again, you will automatically be found guilty. If you make a phone call on my line, as long as it's not a direct overseas call, I don't have a problem with it. Would I be so emphatic about my innocence if I was lying?
There's nothing worse than being accused of something you did not do based on hearsay. Worse still is when the claimant has an agenda of which you know nothing. Who is she and what is she to you?
